At Home with the Beveres
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We Got Our Kids iPhones... Under ONE Condition
Here is the link to the phone agreement we discussed in the episode→ messengerinternational.org/at-home-podcast-cell-phone-contract/
Do smart parents let their kids have smartphones? And if so, when?
Many parents feel overwhelmed by the challenges that come with navigating the digital world with their kids. There’s so much pressure to protect them, but often, they are unsure how, or even if, that’s possible. How do you go beyond rules that restrict and find ways to truly teach and empower your kids to make wise decisions?
Perhaps no issue brings all of these challenges to the forefront as much as smartphones.
This week on At Home with the Beveres, we invited our two oldest kids Asher and Sophie to join us, and we’re tackling the phone issue head on.
Tune in for some practical tools to help your family thrive in the digital age!
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Chapters:
0:00 - 4 Things We Are Talking about Today!
0:12 - Screenagers
1:25 - Our Prayer and Consideration
5:03 - iPhones But NOT Social Media
10:05 - Asking Our Kids If Getting Them Phones Was a Good Idea
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  • @cookingforkidswithavah3291
    @cookingforkidswithavah3291 14 годин тому

    I love that you’re talking about this. I got my oldest daughter a phone at 13 and we completely locked it down. Locking it down was a big frustration for her and as she got older, we unlocked it and then just put restrictions and time limits on everything. She still says that she feels like we got her a phone too early Our next daughter got her phone at 15. The way we did social media was they first have an account through my phone for at least the first year. That way I can see everything that’s going on. And they have to ask for my phone to look at it lol I think that worked out great and they seemed very happy with that, my daughter didn’t get Instagram on her own phone until she was 17.

  • @carrenolady
    @carrenolady 14 годин тому

    These shows with teens are so insightful. Thank you So much. One of our boys just turn 13 and when I was listening to Asher, I was able to understand more my son and the moods and changes he is going through… to your teens. Thank you for joining mom and dad at the table!

  • @veronica.aztxco
    @veronica.aztxco День тому

    This one stirred me so!❤️‍🔥Thank you all so much 🥹

  • @jmkpghsea
    @jmkpghsea День тому

    What parent control/security program do you use?

  • @kb-zs5my
    @kb-zs5my День тому

    this is the next book im getting!!

  • @KinglyGift
    @KinglyGift День тому

    Thank you for all this wonderful content!

  • @melissak9627
    @melissak9627 2 дні тому

    This was fantastic and so helpful. Just thought I'd let you know that the agreement has one of the points listed twice (unless it was intentional?) and a spelling mistake "watching shoes" instead of "shows"

  • @msleah8865
    @msleah8865 2 дні тому

    🎉🎉***ATTENTION***🎉🎉 My family and I have a blended dynamic. We have all boys, 2 of which have phones. At our home we have rules and structure. Not so much at the other parents. Can your podcasts include more practical ways to implement structure and obedience in blended families in EVERY SITUATION? We pray for the other parents that they come to know the Lord and we also know that we can only control our household and keep doing our thing God's way, but it becomes discouraging and disheartening when the boys choose things contrary to what is being taught in our home.

  • @madikarankali1636
    @madikarankali1636 2 дні тому

    Please please make a short of Sophie's prayer 🙏❤️ it was beautiful

  • @jennyc5100
    @jennyc5100 3 дні тому

    This is so good!! Thank you!

  • @alyssah52
    @alyssah52 3 дні тому

    Honestly I am so impressed with your son and how he is so honest with you. Gives me so much hope that I will have the same type of relationship my son as he grows.

  • @myengles1861
    @myengles1861 3 дні тому

    “…people struggle to hear the voice of God and connect with God through prayer because they look for God’s voice in the voice of the accuser…” 🔥🔥😮‍💨🙏

  • @celeryy6
    @celeryy6 3 дні тому

    I love the honesty of the young boy

  • @vilmarieramos6076
    @vilmarieramos6076 3 дні тому

    I love the honesty from your children. So helpful hearing all sides of it. Thank you!

  • @jonross5899
    @jonross5899 3 дні тому

    Ya,ll are for signs and wonders 😊❤ we love you guys and thank God for your ministry

  • @dorenatasha1994
    @dorenatasha1994 3 дні тому

    Well done parents. You raised your kids to be very self aware children. I believe this is possible because you makes it safe for them to speak. It shows how well you researched to make an informed decision for your children. I don’t have any children yet I am a high school teacher and I can see how damaging social media has become. It’s terrifying!! We must pray for parents.

  • @nwanyibuifeobiako162
    @nwanyibuifeobiako162 3 дні тому

    This was a great episode - I love when you bring your beautiful children into the discussions!

  • @marthazaragoza4385
    @marthazaragoza4385 4 дні тому

    His "yaayy 🙃" 😂😂😂. I appreciate yall sharing this. God is good. Little dude did describe romans 7 so well. Thats never gonna end. But God! ❤🙏🙌

  • @Bangastarch
    @Bangastarch 4 дні тому

    The enemy wants us to fight in our own sufficiency

  • @lucyhoneychurch5293
    @lucyhoneychurch5293 4 дні тому

    Love you Momma Lisa, thank you for this. ❤️

  • @damilolaoladoyin5138
    @damilolaoladoyin5138 4 дні тому

    Do your children make use of WhatsApp or how do they communicate with friends

  • @Revelation.12.11
    @Revelation.12.11 4 дні тому

    We got my oldest a bark phone. They also have a Gabb phone. They are safer phone options. ❤

  • @jilllingenfelter4682
    @jilllingenfelter4682 4 дні тому

    My oldest nephew doesn’t have a cell phone he has a smartwatch and it only has a few contacts on it. And he can call&text his few contacts and if he wants to add someone new onto his smartwatch he needs to get absolute permission from his parents. And then they can give him their ok!! And my oldest nephew doesn’t have any addiction issues at all!!he has grown up in a very very very very very Godly home. And his grandparents my parents are amazingly amazing Godly people:) And my baby sister And her husband are Christians:) And I’m the oldest aunty. And I’m super passionate about Jesus Christ:) @athomewiththebeveres

  • @drycreekmama
    @drycreekmama 5 днів тому

    FYI: the Bible app allows full access to Facebook…you just have to dig deep enough.

  • @drycreekmama
    @drycreekmama 5 днів тому

    FYI: the Bible app allows full access to Facebook. You just have to dig deep enough.

  • @judyvanschalkwyk6504
    @judyvanschalkwyk6504 5 днів тому

    It's a drug. Their brains are still developing. Should they be exposed?

  • @williamsusanto5295
    @williamsusanto5295 5 днів тому

    So good 👍 Please have more conversation like this.

  • @Poqui562
    @Poqui562 5 днів тому

    For your boy, life will always feel like your different from the peers , especially if you’re doing something different and to better yourself, right now it’s your parents trying to better yall just pray for that 😊 just think there’s a great number of people trying to dumb down their phone anyhow because there’s depression etc

  • @dianedelorme4367
    @dianedelorme4367 5 днів тому

    Going to share this on Facebook

  • @destinysaucedo3054
    @destinysaucedo3054 5 днів тому

    This is so awesome. I loved hearing this conversation.

  • @chelseabrown5763
    @chelseabrown5763 5 днів тому

    I LOVE these conversations and I love hearing your young teens being honest. I want to hear their perspective on UA-cam and y’all’s perspective on UA-cam as social media/ a way of learning and how yall train in that aspect. 🙏🏾

  • @Amazinggrace30
    @Amazinggrace30 5 днів тому

    Love, love the honesty!!

  • @jodyperfect6127
    @jodyperfect6127 5 днів тому

    Thank you, God. I needed this. Have a 14, 16, and 18 year old. Lost 18 year old to phone 📱

  • @ruthieloar8805
    @ruthieloar8805 5 днів тому

    Your children are so blessed to have parents so intentional in their parenting. Keeping the conversation open between you all is so wonderful. Keep up the great work!

  • @tylercupp8540
    @tylercupp8540 5 днів тому

    I have two young boys, these videos are SUCH a blessing as we navigate parenting. I love the honesty of your son! It shows you’ve given him a son-ship mindset. He knows he’s loved, you’re on his team, and he knows you want the best for him.

  • @LaurenG_HeartofDeborah
    @LaurenG_HeartofDeborah 5 днів тому

    This is your best episode yet (and they are all good!). I REALLY appreciate the honesty and the biblical worldview you provide about phones. Also thankful your kids shared the honest battle. We need more of this! Good job 👏🏼

  • @user-og2wt3le4j
    @user-og2wt3le4j 5 днів тому

    One of our best weapons is to know the Bible well. That means reading and studying it cover to cover. You need to repeat 100 times over. That way when your beliefs are challenged, you can defend them with scripture.

  • @user-og2wt3le4j
    @user-og2wt3le4j 5 днів тому

    Life was so much easier when there was no internet and smart phones. But that train has left the station. This is a good idea to discuss phone use with our kids.

  • @user-og2wt3le4j
    @user-og2wt3le4j 5 днів тому

    We were talking about this issue in our church leadership meeting. Parents feel their teens are glued to their phones. I noticed it when teaching the youth class two weeks ago. Three youth were told to keep their phones off during class.

  • @user-og2wt3le4j
    @user-og2wt3le4j 5 днів тому

    Getting them a iphone sounds like a good idea until one of them says they lost the iphone.

  • @lvlc5
    @lvlc5 5 днів тому

    I looooove you all's honesty... This was a very very productive conversation. I will watch this with family to discuss... many good points and reality checks.

  • @TheKurtLyon
    @TheKurtLyon 5 днів тому

    Really appreciate you having your kids on and sharing as well. This is good. Appreciate this.

  • @lvlc5
    @lvlc5 5 днів тому

    That intro! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @TheKurtLyon
    @TheKurtLyon 5 днів тому

    That was the best opener ever LOL <- that is actually nervous parent laughter 😂

  • @jenniferwalsh1731
    @jenniferwalsh1731 5 днів тому

    It's not a privilege. Amen!!

  • @madikarankali1636
    @madikarankali1636 5 днів тому

    I understand honesty when I'm in a good mood 😂😂😂 I love how honest your kids are❤ you guys are doing a great job

  • @agnesr.4664
    @agnesr.4664 5 днів тому

    Such a key! Parents lead by example, not by command. It is so crucial to help children find a way to deal with stuff practically. That's how you build them, that is how you give them ideas they later on can choose from and develop their own along the way.

  • @judyvanschalkwyk6504
    @judyvanschalkwyk6504 6 днів тому

    God wants us to live a large life. Live large. Not obeying God, is taking risk. God is faithful!

  • @KinglyGift
    @KinglyGift 8 днів тому

    Thanks for this wonderful content! My question: Is it possible to overstep our spiritual authority? I've heard about a few people who came up against principalities maybe out of enthusiasm rather than God's leading and got into trouble. How can we avoid this? Where is the line in terms of what we definitely should rise up and take authority over and what we need to be more careful with? Thanks.

  • @celeryy6
    @celeryy6 9 днів тому

    Which superbowl commercial? 🤔